Ah the famous
bathtub scene, taken in my hometown,
Washington D.C. In this city of historic monuments and
grand
museums, what I remember most are the "lightning
bugs" and my great Aunt Helen who was my first piano
teacher. A
no-nonsense
lady, she insisted I wash my little hands before touching her beloved
Steinway Baby Grand. She was the classical music prodigy in the family and songs
like "Chop Sticks" were strictly forbidden in her house. But she
taught me about the white keys and the black keys (and the cracks). I
also learned that I could hum a song and then play it, which was a
whole lot more fun than those finger exercises of hers. To this
day I play by ear.
My father had the itch to move to California and get as far
away from the in-laws as possible
without actually leaving the continental United States and
that's
how our eccentric little nuclear family landed in Los Angeles. In
those days aerospace was hot and my father had
worked for N.A.S.A. during the Sputnik and Mercury Capsule days.
My
mother eventually went to school and became a registered nurse and
I tried to adjust to big crazy Los Angeles by hiding out in the den and playing the piano.
Our Baldwin Acrosonic piano, which made the move with us across the country, became my best friend, along with a new
$19.95 Silvertone guitar, from Sears. I had big dreams: I wanted to be a star but would be thrilled playing music in a bar, by
golly. "Not something 'good girls' aspire
to," remarked the disenfranchised relatives back east.
I needed
to keep peace in my very academic family so I went
off to college, behind the "Redwood Curtain" at Humboldt State
University in Arcata, California. I learned how to make sand
candles, crab shell windchimes and to nail "A's" in my classes. I
fell in love, fell out of love, gained thirty pounds, lost thirty
pounds and
snagged a B.A. in psychology. While my
friends went on to get bigger and better degrees, I came back to Los
Angeles
and worked in a local hospital emergency room probably to "find myself"
or something like that. And I did. On the graveyard
shift.
I think I learned more about psychology (mine and theirs) in my first week there
than
I did in four years of school. In fact it was perfect preparation
for my future work -- singing in piano bars. After three years of
high drama in the E.R. very little shocks me. But, I'm
getting ahead of myself...
While
I pulled those emergency room graveyard shifts on the weekend, I went to nursing
school during the day, because it
seemed like a good idea at the time. Actually, it took me a whole
semester to realize that I enjoyed playing the guitar and singing for
the old guys at the V.A. Hospital during our clinical rotations more
than anything else. Yes, I had
reached the proverbial fork in
the road.
Either I listen to my own heart or
I do what other people think I should do.
That simple. And once I really listened, the choice was
easy. I dropped out of nursing school immediately (and especially before I inflicted any permanent damage on anyone). I left
my job in the E.R. too.
My parents freaked. My friends freaked. I found my
first performing job in the red light district of Los Angeles, singing
"Kum-baya" to drunks and drug addicts. The prostitutes loved
it. My first night on the gig I made $27.50 and never looked
back.
That
was many years ago. I
have been
happily playing and singing ever since in all sorts of places and for
all kinds
of people. I get paid to do something I absolutely love to
do.
That makes me feel very lucky...and grateful. Great teachers and
mentors have turned me into a real professional--one who honors the
craft
of songwriter and performing. I've made four albums of my own
songs and some of them are actually played on radio, regular and
internet. I even got a couple royalty checks from BMI. Now that's exacting!
I
met my husband Craig at one of my piano bar gigs. He'd hang
out in his Navy uniform. You have to know that I have a thing for
men in uniforms, so I noticed him right away. One evening he
brought his guitar along and I asked him to "sit in." We played the
song "Kansas City" and it was quite nice, as in ding, ding, ding, ding, ding. Something clicked, one thing led to another and now we're regular married folk.
Craig
loves his job. He teaches 10th grade world history. But his
true passion is the ukulele. He began playing with earnest a few
years ago and it rubbed off on me. I decided to learn a few
chords. OO,
that was fun, so I learned a few more. That's when I fell in
love. Head over heels in love with the ukulele. It helps that I
am a finger-picker from way back and a lot of my guitar technique comes
in handy. But the ukulele is different and full of surprises.
It comes gift-wrapped with a big bow. Each new chord
or lick or strum I learn can open a door to a whole new world of sound
and texture and rhythm. What a joy!
So
here I am today. All my life experiences have brought me to this
moment...and this moment...and this moment. Like everyone else,
I've had dark times
a-plenty.
Major illness plagued me most of my adolescence. The tragedy of
family estrangement and losing loved ones are part of my
story. This precious life is a mixed bag, for sure. But
being an entertainer, musician and songwriter, I get to
lather my
feelings
into a song or story and lighten the load with a little
humor. I'm
grateful for each word I sing and every note I play and for all of you
who share
your time, your stories and your applause with me.
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